The Importance of Socialization in Online School
by Kristina Cappetta
byBob Engler
6 min to readAmazing things happen when students take ownership of their education:
Self-motivated learners flourish academically. They also become efficient time managers, critical thinkers, creative problem-solvers, and can efficiently hone other skills that are essential to success in school, college, and careers.
Academic and life skills can be taught, learned, and developed over time, and students can start understanding how to become independent students as early as middle grades.
“By the time she was starting high school she was completely independent.” — Online school parent
Parents who have enrolled their children in online schools such as Connections Academy® have a pivotal role in helping their kids become highly motivated, highly dedicated lifelong learners. Here are a few things you can do to help your student thrive as an independent learner:
Online schools may give parents the option to become more deeply involved in their children’s education by serving as Learning Coaches.
Through their active support, Learning Coaches are part cheerleader, part mentor, and part guide. As a Learning Coach, you can prepare your student to become an independent learner early in their online education journey by instilling basic organizational skills in them. Those can include:
Keep in mind that effective Learning Coaches help students do things for themselves and don’t do it for them. If you need help adjusting to online school, talk to your student’s online teachers. They are dedicated to helping your child succeed.
ASCD, a teaching resource featuring leading educators in K–12 education, calls productive struggle “a learner’s sweet spot.”
It exists in a region that academics call the zone of proximal development — the space between giving learners too much help too early and not giving enough when needed.
Students who struggle productively motivate themselves to persist in solving problems. The satisfaction of working through difficulty by themselves builds their confidence to seek out and overcome new challenges. They also learn that coming up short one day creates opportunities to learn the next. If they’re still stumped, they know how to ask for help.
“If they excel in a certain subject, they can work ahead. If they are struggling with a subject, they can take extra time to make sure they fully understand what is being taught before moving on to the next lesson.” — Online school parent
Productive struggle is a balancing act. Giving students too much help before they get in their zone produces boredom and reliance on others to do their work. If you don’t step in when the task starts to overwhelm them, the struggle is no longer productive, and they can lose control of their emotions and give up.
But when you guide them into their “sweet spot,” and they trust they’re not alone, they become successful independent learners.
Online schools are a great place to let your student stretch their wings and test their independence with you being just close enough to step in if they need support. In online school, students learn how to be resourceful, adaptable, and resilient, which builds the skills they need to find success later in life.
Learning how to study by yourself is an essential skill for independent learners.
The quality of studying depends on the quality of your notes, and one way to improve both is to go analog instead of digital: In other words, taking notes by hand instead of by computer.
Computers are highly effective learning tools. They are great for research, communication, and collaboration. But students who use them tend to transcribe lectures rather than process the information through note-taking.
Research has found that digital note-takers capture a lot of facts, which is great for rote memorization. On the other hand, students who write their notes out by hand learn how to listen to the information (a critical skill in and of itself), and absorb, digest, and interpret it.
“So, what does old-school note-taking get right that its digital counterpart lacks?” The research concludes, “It is quite simple: quality over quantity.”
Taking notes by hand has other benefits. Students can use charts, tables, mind maps, and other visualizations to organize information. That supports conceptual understanding and connections, which in turn develops critical thinking and creative problem-solving skills.
Critical thinking and creative problem-solving skills are vital to self-motivated learning. Self-motivated students don’t wait to be told to preview notes—whether handwritten or digital—from previous lessons to prepare for the next. And, after each lesson, they take time to review their notes to reinforce what they’ve learned and ensure they’ve captured the important parts.
Students who take responsibility for their academic success have a personal investment in their academic success. And, over time, students who have a voice in creating their educational experience reap rewards such as confidence, inspiration, and independence.
Unlike traditional brick-and-mortar schools with their regimented teaching and curriculum, Connections Academy provides opportunities for parents of even the youngest learners to own parts of the process through:
“Some kids work better in the morning and others after they relax a little. Some might even be night owls... It’s OK to let them work at their best time! "" —Online school parent
Becoming an independent learner takes time, but self-motivated students know how and when to ask for help. If your student continues to struggle with certain concepts or begins to fall behind, it may be time for a tutor. Many online schools offer varying degrees of tutoring services to support your student. Here are some ways to tell if your student needs a tutor.
by Kristina Cappetta
by Kristina Cappetta
by Kristina Cappetta